I matched with this guy who seemed to be really cool. We had a lot of things in common so the messages we were sending to each other were like novels, talking about older video games and what we liked to play as children, etc.
So eventually he asks me if I want to go on a date with him. We were getting along fine and he was really cute, so of course I said yes. He took me out to a hibachi restaurant, where he proceeded to take me to a Japanese market. Fast forward to him having to stop by his house. I knew what he was up to, but I had gotten out of a three year relationship a few months prior, so I was ready for whatever came. We had sex, went back to my house, did it again, and he left.
A few weeks go by, we’re still talking and hanging out, and one night I went to stay at his house. We had sex multiple times and suddenly it was four in the morning, and I noticed he was talking to a girl on Facebook… Who was his ex. Suddenly, he starts bawling his eyes out, crying about how he misses her and how he’s “such a good guy and shouldn’t be torn like this.” He then LEAVES ME AT HIS HOUSE (he drove me there, and it was way too late so all my friends were asleep) and goes to his ex’s place to “talk it out,” which he stayed at for three hours before finally coming back, saying how sorry he was.
Needless to say, I demanded to be taken home and I never talked to him again.